tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-67550545702984229332024-03-05T04:29:42.614-08:00CAFE Bonnie: Coffee Autism Faith ExploredBonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.comBlogger239125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-22738518135663893152013-11-21T21:38:00.000-08:002013-11-21T21:38:32.576-08:00Happy Birthday Mom<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjet2fVJiexYoJvlhEKneguOnAdIb2FVk2tDkr4sJPt_cHYPO9KrxZQX0K53fMBx1Wh6S9T7m4GimgBnksc0hxR5pL6uVzLrh00lM4O-CtMbPMzStsNeoTro8qfEDs98F7ZXxcDvZKQcNo/s1600/mom+me+geoffrey.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjet2fVJiexYoJvlhEKneguOnAdIb2FVk2tDkr4sJPt_cHYPO9KrxZQX0K53fMBx1Wh6S9T7m4GimgBnksc0hxR5pL6uVzLrh00lM4O-CtMbPMzStsNeoTro8qfEDs98F7ZXxcDvZKQcNo/s400/mom+me+geoffrey.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>
Today was my Mom's birthday. It's been two months since she passed away and I still can't believe it. It doesn't feel real, yet it is. I've been angry with God, but lately the anger has turned to sorrow. I'm glad she isn't suffering anymore. She was so sick the last year of her life. <br />
<br />
As I look through more recent pictures of her I can see now how sick she was. I can't bear to put any of these pictures up now. At the time I couldn't see it and that I feel was God's grace. I couldn't have cared for her had I fully seen how sick she was. Tonight we shared cake and remembered how wonderful it was to have her with us. <br />
<br />
I've decided I don't want to miss any opportunities to love on others. We need to take every opportunity to enjoy our family and friends. To enjoy life's little simple pleasures while we can.<br />
<br />
Dear God, please give my Mom a great big birthday hug from me and tell her that I love her - Amen.Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-33992498999006128972013-11-19T12:02:00.001-08:002013-11-19T12:02:51.503-08:00Why Bother<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPIzsq0b4xGgwc7QctBAwCZ46wJAG23Epk8khQ3puxoDSWTXZmLIoKjn6Dfhg6qPvCnpZJ1t1Fmi9HPQN-6eWYd2Rp6YEdEaAHYEtTmv_J8v_JXWVJI8dKn4Bg1OU8ByYFy9yHPaFaols/s1600/image+.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="144" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPIzsq0b4xGgwc7QctBAwCZ46wJAG23Epk8khQ3puxoDSWTXZmLIoKjn6Dfhg6qPvCnpZJ1t1Fmi9HPQN-6eWYd2Rp6YEdEaAHYEtTmv_J8v_JXWVJI8dKn4Bg1OU8ByYFy9yHPaFaols/s200/image+.jpg" width="200" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Why Bother?</td></tr>
</tbody></table>
One day I figured out that if you took into account all of the reading, writing and traveling I've done over the years I've been working for less than minimum wage at National Autism Resources. There are now many more autism stores and sites out there. New ones pop up every day...<br />
<br />
Sometimes, actually many times lately, I ask myself - why bother!? Do you ever just stop and look out the window and wonder if what you are doing matters? if I stopped would anyone care?<br />
<br />
<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgImTXOa9xJvNwawl_gbwe1bTIIr9tITsOxsmJqG2Hl7Q1hwo9aCJurZfFVDVVw2Ib3FpVM-T2R3NbjJVu9pcJ9ZfBXtmuFXgQIjn1GeZS1gTYbIh4lpgLlasXVU0t11rNuc2tKnEO2sZE/s1600/image2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="143" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgImTXOa9xJvNwawl_gbwe1bTIIr9tITsOxsmJqG2Hl7Q1hwo9aCJurZfFVDVVw2Ib3FpVM-T2R3NbjJVu9pcJ9ZfBXtmuFXgQIjn1GeZS1gTYbIh4lpgLlasXVU0t11rNuc2tKnEO2sZE/s200/image2.jpg" width="200" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">It's worth it!</td></tr>
</tbody></table>
But then I get a note like this: <br />
<br />
<div id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2107" style="text-align: center;">
<i><span id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2106">Ashley put his noise reduction ear muffs on </span></i></div>
<div id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2107" style="text-align: center;">
<i><span id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2106">and immediately
said, "these feel good". </span></i></div>
<div id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2107" style="text-align: center;">
<i><span id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2106">The amazing part of this story is that </span></i></div>
<div id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2107" style="text-align: center;">
<i><span id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2106">Ashley
is still considered non-verbal!</span></i></div>
<div id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2107" style="text-align: center;">
<span id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2106"> </span></div>
<div id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2107">
<span id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2106"> How great is that! </span><span id="yui_3_7_2_1_1384890567084_2106">Ashley is the reason why I bother.</span></div>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-72589467677754633322013-11-08T11:50:00.000-08:002013-11-09T14:56:25.612-08:00Visual Gift Ideas for Autistic TeenagerIt's time for my annual post on my favorite toys and gifts for teens with autism. As always its a challenge to find really great gifts that are socially appropriate for a teenager with autism. This year I've found some really good ones that are highly visual. I like highly visual gifts because most of the teens on the spectrum I know are fascinated by highly visual items (including my son LOL). Anyhow here, is a sneak peak at our Christmas list. <br />
<br />
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/laser-stars.html" target="_blank"><b>Laser Stars</b></a><br />
This projects a bunch of floating stars and what kind of looks like the Milky Way onto the walls and ceiling of a dark room. Once in awhile a shooting star will go across the ceiling. It is so awesome to look at. This would make a great calming gift for a teen with autism. It could turn any darkened room into a quiet planetarium.<br />
<br />
Here is a video but I don't think it does it justice:<br />
<br />
<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/ULd2GHcKEZE?rel=0" width="560"></iframe><br />
<br />
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/super-sized-light-doodler.html" target="_blank"><b>Super Light Doodler</b></a><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/super-sized-light-doodler.html" target="_blank"><img alt="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/super-sized-light-doodler.html" border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtbG62ZirHua0hfc2g_qC_kPczh7V02O_R8eiGS1a3jIPdADqc43bU0Vs3PiKFmjaphKxWLSlCwilQB6PGg3MPftrC37S3Bjv36fVK2vg4bBgXZzX5HGwBXnZTl1thuoGNK8mnjqBP7Tw/s1600/image.jpg" /></a></div>
The <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/super-sized-light-doodler.html" target="_blank">super light doodler</a> is big sphere of light (about eleven inches I believe) that you can manipulate which is really neat. You can make the light spin, or stop, or it can randomly change designs. This is really interesting to look at and best of all other teenagers think it's cool.<br />
<br />
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/strobotop-lightphase-animatior.html" target="_blank"><b>Strobotop</b></a><br />
OK to understand the greatness of the Strobotop you've got to watch this video:<br />
<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/Ox1LQbmF3Y8?rel=0" width="420"></iframe><br />
<br />
Now that you've seen the video, you know how awesome the Strobotop is. What I like is that you can make your own animations, draw in your own designs. For teens with autism who are also artistic this is a really fun and interesting toy. <br />
<br />
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/original-hoberman-sphere.html" target="_blank">Hoberman Sphere</a><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/original-hoberman-sphere.html" target="_blank"><img alt="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/original-hoberman-sphere.html" border="0" height="241" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6_Jp-B4_SDBfUjNq3TRIesZvgbnSc-4rl36CJFxkuWAQzt6OtDn0BmwGc9cc7uWY_OdfTFM8-J6q__xXgUTg43J41T24RDA2PyNSlE-e_ejOC44rw1HEDyx5x-93qXlnJ6udWQIsDQ-c/s320/image.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>
<br />
The <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/original-hoberman-sphere.html" target="_blank">Hoberman Sphere</a> is another really interesting, highly visual mechanical toy. This thing literally expands to three times its size. My son is fascinated by mechanical pieces in action. I think this would also be a great gift for other autistic teens, but they have to be careful. If your teen is rough with items then I wouldn't get it. Some of the plastic pieces in the joints are small and can break if not handled carefully. Super interesting and fun to play with. <br />
<br />
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/mosaica.html" target="_blank">Mosaica</a><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/mosaica.html" target="_blank"><img alt="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/mosaica.html" border="0" height="173" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihGxB4PhFO4q4aNjGKl1L-LMfMIsNaNJcQYd2my6Dc3UBpz3QzWrq4fvoSXG5PlZw24BXxCZcRrH_XHbxeDe4LI-dsNd6A_7b1Xi2YmH24_mdDGyP4lsd7jIOX0BH57QiK37k5kMbn9uk/s320/image.jpg" width="320" /><span id="goog_1380663807"></span></a><span id="goog_1380663808"></span></div>
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/mosaica.html" target="_blank">Mosaica </a>is a magnetic mosaic set. You can make a wide variety of colors and designs using the tiles. I like that it comes in a sturdy tin so all of the mosaic pieces stick to the tin. This is a fun travel toy or holiday distraction for teens that need one. <br />
<br />
What about you what are you buying for Christmas? If you've got some good gift ideas for your teen please share them!<br />
<br />
<br />Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-2693004994142286032013-11-07T07:38:00.000-08:002013-11-07T07:38:14.982-08:00Death SucksLately I've had a morbid infatuation with death. I'm watching zombie movies, asking people about their experiences with death, my ears perk up when I hear anyone approach the subject. I can't stop thinking about it I can't stop talking about it. I seem to be weaving death into every conversation. I even brought death up with one of my bubbly sales reps...<br />
<br />
Awkward pause...<br />
<br />
And then I knew it. I've turned into a grieved, death obsessed weirdo and I've got to control myself. At least I have to control myself while at work. At home I'm free to watch all the zombie movies, <a href="http://www.amctv.com/shows/the-walking-dead" target="_blank">Walking Dead</a> episodes (yes I'm a fan does that offend you???), talk about death, talk about my mom all I want. I talk then become tired and fall asleep... and my family still loves me. I'm glad they love me because my death talk doesn't always make sense. Who knows, this post probably doesn't make sense. But it doesn't matter because the way my Mom's death went down still doesn't make sense to me.<br />
<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnZ2KVSCAWv6ez71VbgK63pS_nokTh6Sv0d2vLWmB_vafomJG2sOHwRd0h3hs17ubJc5Er8jb0IcbSNHEMAALJqUeTG8xd1ztUHpelk0UPK70bBqmJTqn20kT_wYR-jnZKhYYTez0AgrU/s1600/image.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhnZ2KVSCAWv6ez71VbgK63pS_nokTh6Sv0d2vLWmB_vafomJG2sOHwRd0h3hs17ubJc5Er8jb0IcbSNHEMAALJqUeTG8xd1ztUHpelk0UPK70bBqmJTqn20kT_wYR-jnZKhYYTez0AgrU/s400/image.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>
<br />
<br />
She suffered. She suffered and I held her hand through it. Have you ever been glued to a situation and part of you didn't want to leave, but the other part wanted to run away screaming madly to somewhere?<br />
<br />
That's what it was like for me. I couldn't stand to watch her suffer and I couldn't stand to have her alone in her suffering and so I stayed. I stayed and held her hand, and cleaned up her vomit, and prayed...<br />
<br />
and then God didn't answer my prayers the way I wanted Him too.<br />
<br />
I never wanted something so desperately and I didn't get it from God. It's not like my prayer was selfish, I just wanted the suffering, the vomiting, the nausea, the pain... I wanted it to stop and it didn't. So now I just feel so angry. I'm mad that my loving, kind, fun, people lovin' Mama had to suffer. God could have helped the suffering and He didn't. I don't understand why He didn't. It was ugly, it was hard and I hate that it happened.<br />
<br />
Death sucks<br />
<br />
The Process of dying sucks even more.<br />
<br />
I hate that all of us will have to face it.<br />
<br />
Like I said you probably don't want to read this blog. Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-26185374636666706032013-07-11T16:08:00.002-07:002013-11-06T18:01:36.497-08:00GriefWell for over a year now my blog has been quiet. I haven't had much time or energy for writing. In the summer of 2012 my Mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. Let me just start right of by saying CANCER SUCKS. I packed up her home and she came to live with me and we fought like crazy to beat it, but in the end she didn't make it.<br />
<br />
Here is my favorite picture of her:<br />
<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeqOD54wNRp5XDpDVjyZPn8zGVUljw-F9yGpzm93UN6ISIYi7PKSN5JJZyxd18QXwBXvtrRjFjNFidlXwcDH0kS3pHNNngEwukx3v8x62vwQtSbYnZu0bqwPyxBFIg88e31LIVYiTHLrw/s1600/image.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="480" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeqOD54wNRp5XDpDVjyZPn8zGVUljw-F9yGpzm93UN6ISIYi7PKSN5JJZyxd18QXwBXvtrRjFjNFidlXwcDH0kS3pHNNngEwukx3v8x62vwQtSbYnZu0bqwPyxBFIg88e31LIVYiTHLrw/s640/image.jpg" width="640" /></a></div>
<br />
I love it because this is how I think of her funny, vivacious, welcoming. She thoroughly enjoyed people and she thoroughly enjoyed me. So I think for awhile I'm going to write about her.<br />
<br />
Cancer sucks<br />
<br />
Grief sucks<br />
<br />
and Death is not easy...<br />
<br />
You may not want to read my blog for awhile.Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-35125314548303486452013-07-11T16:08:00.000-07:002013-07-11T16:08:12.628-07:00Thunder Shirt for People<br />
<br />
<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="270" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/QOcfS7xwVfY" width="480"></iframe><br />
<br />
<br />
My kids showed me the above video of this cat. It was kind of cute but when the cat put on the Thundershirt it just didn't want to move. Then I had a thought thunder shirts for people are basically <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/autism-weighted-vests.html">weighted vests</a>. They can be incredibly calming and comforting for some and ineffective for others. I've seen weighted vests work wonders for some, allowing them to feel calm and focused. I've seen others who absolutely hate it. So as in the case of the cat make sure it is calming and if you do try a weighted vest or neck wrap and it doesn't work - take it off!Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-26153189162762197972012-11-20T09:18:00.000-08:002012-11-20T09:18:51.804-08:005 Great Gifts for Autistic Teenagers and Those with Aspergers<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/tangle-jr--chrome.html" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiw93soPy7bEefMaNwVAivqFJXjHuBIdAvBBdzqCWqS5nlyMw9jp3za0ShbojjKZy4CeRJ-XvjMfrL0gC6T1a5wDgIn5f3i1H6HlW6eenCo2gjpsAiQYAIyQ-Dju5v0i-_dqZcWYZa3eD4/s200/image.jpg" width="200" /></a>Here are my top five favorite gifts for teens on the autism spectrum. I decided to write this post because I see lots of gift ideas for younger children with autism, but there's not much out there for teens. When looking for a gift for an autistic teen I ask myself two questions: will they enjoy it? Is it socially appropriate? I can't stand to see teens on the spectrum play with baby toys! I'm not saying its wrong, I'm just saying there may be other options. With that said here are my top five gift picks for 2012.<br />
<br />
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/tangle-jr--chrome.html" target="_blank"><b>Tangle Chrome</b></a><br />
I love tangle toys. They are interesting to look at, great fidgets and come in lots of styles. For teens my absolute favorite is the <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/tangle-jr--chrome.html" target="_blank">Tangle Chrome Jr.</a> First of all it looks beautiful and appropriate for a teen. Second of all it is made of chrome so it has some weight, which feels good in the hands. This is a very sturdy toy made of metal. That is also a benefit but if your teen bites things this will break his or her teeth. If they throw things then this is not the gift to get. My son absolutely loved this gift. <br />
<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/jelly-fish-lamp.html" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdoOg9RXTAzAUdnYM2v0ph1xS_wsImYHbtBDa-DHPSiRhNQlSGJjC-3hMW_x70jq0H21Tx6yvx8gBvfv7Gvt3wQtq98GqGOn2DwnZyfd3EHM67ytKaR3x276sdIF0dxH-rDUsu7ZJzfLo/s200/image.jpg" width="200" /></a></div>
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/jelly-fish-lamp.html" target="_blank"><b>Jellyfish Lamp</b></a><br />
The <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/jelly-fish-lamp.html" target="_blank">Jellyfish Lamp</a> is gorgeous and looks great in a teenagers room. Turn on this lamp and watch jellyfish glide around in the water with a slowly changing LED light backdrop. This also works well as a nightlight and will automatically shut off after four hours. If the autistic teen you are buying for is highly visual they will love it! Some other good gift lamps include a <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/soothing-volcano-panel.html" target="_blank">Volcano Lamp</a>, <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/disco-ball.html" target="_blank">Disco Ball</a> or the <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/vision-motion-lamp.html" target="_blank">Vision Motion Lamp</a>.<br />
<br />
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/rollick-.html" target="_blank"><b>Rollick</b></a><br />
This is a team version of the classic charades
game. Its fun to play as a group and can also help autistic teens work
on group interaction skills, understanding body language and nonverbal
cues. It's fun to play as a family and since its group oriented your
autistic teen can have fun playing without a lot of pressure to win and
learn some social skills at the same time.<br />
<br />
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/kanoodle1.html" target="_blank"><b>Kanoodle</b></a><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/kanoodle1.html" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgl0YWmSLyH2F2Woa_BnkgEUwSS_0RkrMsNsgN3ScberTvc8Jjvn3OzXIxSn19Z1bmqh4pRHxQ6ZDFPEzbKa1_2Ef6CMUf25qO7cpGKcEgGttEN7Iyoh8w9K027Zq3iNrd8vSAfaPvwyE4/s200/image.jpg" width="200" /></a></div>
This is a three dimensional puzzle game. It comes with interconnected colored spheres of different shapes. Teens must build different puzzle shapes using the correct colors and configurations. This inexpensive gift is really fun for highly visual teens and it comes with a plastic storage box and a full color book with puzzle challenges. Take this game to a restaurant or in the car while you are traveling to help keep teens with autism or Asperger Syndrome happily occupied.<br />
<br />
<br /><br />
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/isoflex.html" target="_blank"><b>Isoflex Ball</b></a><br />
Life is stressful, this little stress ball looks socially appropriate for teens and makes a great stocking stuffer.<br />
<br />
This is just my list of favorites for 2012. I wrote more about <a href="http://cafebonnie.blogspot.com/2011/11/gift-ideas-for-autistic-teenagers.html" target="_blank">how to choose a gift for an autistic teen</a> in an earlier post that offers some general tips. Happy Shopping!Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-7544321597892917952012-11-16T09:30:00.000-08:002012-11-20T09:31:34.700-08:00Life is Up and Down but God is ConsistentLife is so inconsistent. I'm so inconsistent. One this is unchanging and that is God. Here are some of my favorite promises from Him:<br />
<ul>
<li>He will go with you, sustain you and strengthen you. Psalm 89:21,22</li>
<li>He will be your confidence Prov 3:21,26</li>
<li>You do not labor in vain. Isaiah 65:23</li>
<li>God will restore your soul. Psalm 23:3</li>
<li>If you mess up God will forgive you. Isaiah 55:7</li>
<li>He will guide you when life gets hard. Psalm 25:9</li>
<li>He will strengthen your heart and make you a stronger person. Psalm 27:14</li>
<li>Angels are encamped around you. Psalm 27:14</li>
<li>He will replace your tears with joy. Psalm 126:5 </li>
</ul>
Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-89173038004550402742012-08-20T08:53:00.001-07:002012-08-20T08:53:12.688-07:0010 Things I Am Grateful For<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1y_yrjVKTHMFRhMF1jSZNwbQ_AeLD9RqQeGgwcuDv0QZxcAqv7dF6Te7HNFoQxJBn-BQlezrw3zvT1_vAa-JWO4RmJyeJCPn8mXVU3SVmXQhKX79gn-AZc_LJFO3U0F3DoYSxUj5SGzU/s1600/image.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="288" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1y_yrjVKTHMFRhMF1jSZNwbQ_AeLD9RqQeGgwcuDv0QZxcAqv7dF6Te7HNFoQxJBn-BQlezrw3zvT1_vAa-JWO4RmJyeJCPn8mXVU3SVmXQhKX79gn-AZc_LJFO3U0F3DoYSxUj5SGzU/s320/image.jpg" width="320" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Thankfulness</td></tr>
</tbody></table>
Today before I get caught up in the business of everything I just want to stop and meditate on what I'm thankful for. I have so much to be thankful for - here is my quick list:<br /><ol>
<li>God loves me and what He wants most from me is that I love Him back.</li>
<li>My health.</li>
<li>My mind.</li>
<li>My family.</li>
<li>I have a comfortable home.</li>
<li>I love my job.</li>
<li>I have pleanty to eat.</li>
<li>I have several friends.</li>
<li>My son will graduate this year and will go to community college next fall.</li>
<li>Coffee - my simple morning pleasure.</li>
</ol>
My list could go on and on, but these are the first ten things that came to mind. I hope you stop sometime today and meditate on what you are thankful for! Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-90101867930013051022012-08-11T09:29:00.001-07:002012-08-11T09:29:39.430-07:00Mercy<br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">For the next week or so I’m contemplating mercy. A simple definition of mercy according to my Google search is, <i>“Compassion or forgiveness shown toward someone whom it is within one's power to punish or harm, "the boy was begging for mercy.” An event to be grateful for, because its occurrence prevents something unpleasant or provides relief from suffering.”</i></span><br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><br /></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">I started to look at some verses from the Bible on mercy and the first verses I came across are in Exodus 25. In this chapter God gives the Israelites the guidelines for making the "mercy seat." God commands the Israelites to basically make a box and the box top is the mercy seat. On top of the box he tells them to put two cherubs turned toward the mercy seat. So they are in effect "watching" it (Exodus 25:19-20). </span><br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><br /></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">So whats inside the box? Inside the box God tells the Israelites to put the "testimony" He is going to give them. Then He tells them to cover the box with the mercy seat (<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Exodus%2025:20-22&version=NASB" target="_blank">Ex 25:20-22</a>).</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"> </span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">So what do they do with the mercy seat? They cover the mercy seat with sacrifices. God tells the priests to <i>“take some of the blood of the bull and sprinkle it with his finger on the mercy seat.”</i> <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Leviticus+16&version=NASB" target="_blank"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px color: #0928a7; text-decoration: underline;">Leviticus 16:13-15</span> </a></span><br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><br /></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">At this place God says, <i>“here I will meet with you”</i>(<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Exodus+25:22&version=NASB" target="_blank">Ex 25:22</a>).</span><br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><br /></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">God paints for us a picture of mercy and its this: mercy is sacrifice covering the story of God in your life so that others can see it. </span><br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><br /></span>
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Its during these times that God meets us and believe me we need it. The truth is mercy is not easy, it often requires sacrifice. The ultimate sacrifice is physical death - to die for another when they don’t deserve it. But there are other sacrifices that cause us to die to “ourselves” so to speak and I’m in that situation now.</span><br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><br /></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">As I watch my husband struggle with depression he often doesn’t have the energy to meet my needs. I see a world of God’s beauty and grace but He often can’t see it. I must keep my focus on Christ so I wont get pulled down to the place he is at and its not easy. Harsh words come easily with requests for forgiveness. Do I forgive or do I make him pay? Its my choice to be forgiving, to extend mercy, and my friends over time sometimes this hurts. Sometimes I'm merciful, and sometimes the best thing I can do is just keep my mouth shut and pray. I’m still learning how to be merciful and believe me I am no Mother Teresa!</span><br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><br /></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Thus, mercy usually involves sacrifice which means it often hurts. It means giving up your rights, continually looking for the best in another, seeking Gods strength... </span>Fortunately, its during these times that God will meet you. He is meeting me and He has met countless others before me. When our testimony or “life story” is covered in mercy others will see it. What they will do with it, I don’t know, but I do know this: it pleases God, it makes us more like God, and ultimately it draws us closer to God.<br />
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><br /></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">May the Lord have mercy on us all! </span><br />
<div style="font: 10.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 11.0px;">
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></div>
<div style="font: 10.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 11.0px;">
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></div>
<div style="font: 10.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 11.0px;">
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></div>
<div style="font: 10.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 11.0px;">
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></div>
<div style="font: 10.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 11.0px;">
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></div>
<div style="font: 10.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 11.0px;">
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></div>
<div style="font: 10.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 11.0px;">
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></div>
<div style="font: 10.0px Arial; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; min-height: 11.0px;">
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"></span></div>
<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><br /></span>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-56062396721595602882012-08-08T21:34:00.000-07:002012-08-08T21:34:57.129-07:00Back from the Yahoo Merchant SummitFor the last three years I've been going to the Yahoo Merchant Summit. This is always a fun Summit for me because I really enjoy meeting other internet business owners. I've met people who make a living selling gun dog supplies, garden decor, dental kits for adults with braces and more. What's fun is that everyone loves their site and we all learn from each other.<br />
<br />
What struck me this year is how connected many site owners are with their customers. Several owners talked about going the extra mile, small things they do to make their customers happy. We also talked about using conflict as an opporunity to build a trust relationship with our customers. I felt happy inside because at National Autism Resources it's all about our customers and our goal is a life long relationship with all of them.<br />
<br />
There have been many times when we have had stressed out, angry customers on the line, only to find out they have been dealing with marathon melt downs or horrific IEPs. Many times I ask if I can pray for them and to this day I have never had anyone tell me no. I know the feeling of being completely broken and at my wits end. I know the desperate need for God to come alongside me and carry my burdens...<br />
<br />
That's where National Autism Resources is a little different from some of the other internet companies I met with. So many of our customers are carrying such a heavy load. It feels good when we can come along side them with an encouraging word and help carry their burdens. Not every action in business needs to be dollar driven, sometimes its better if its not.Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-73337859134066968102012-06-29T09:51:00.001-07:002012-06-29T09:51:54.620-07:00The Best Weighted Blanket Ever!<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
<o:OfficeDocumentSettings>
<o:AllowPNG/>
</o:OfficeDocumentSettings>
</xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
<w:WordDocument>
<w:View>Normal</w:View>
<w:Zoom>0</w:Zoom>
<w:TrackMoves/>
<w:TrackFormatting/>
<w:PunctuationKerning/>
<w:ValidateAgainstSchemas/>
<w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>
<w:IgnoreMixedContent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent>
<w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>
<w:DoNotPromoteQF/>
<w:LidThemeOther>EN-US</w:LidThemeOther>
<w:LidThemeAsian>X-NONE</w:LidThemeAsian>
<w:LidThemeComplexScript>X-NONE</w:LidThemeComplexScript>
<w:Compatibility>
<w:BreakWrappedTables/>
<w:SnapToGridInCell/>
<w:WrapTextWithPunct/>
<w:UseAsianBreakRules/>
<w:DontGrowAutofit/>
<w:SplitPgBreakAndParaMark/>
<w:EnableOpenTypeKerning/>
<w:DontFlipMirrorIndents/>
<w:OverrideTableStyleHps/>
</w:Compatibility>
<m:mathPr>
<m:mathFont m:val="Cambria Math"/>
<m:brkBin m:val="before"/>
<m:brkBinSub m:val="--"/>
<m:smallFrac m:val="off"/>
<m:dispDef/>
<m:lMargin m:val="0"/>
<m:rMargin m:val="0"/>
<m:defJc m:val="centerGroup"/>
<m:wrapIndent m:val="1440"/>
<m:intLim m:val="subSup"/>
<m:naryLim m:val="undOvr"/>
</m:mathPr></w:WordDocument>
</xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
<w:LatentStyles DefLockedState="false" DefUnhideWhenUsed="true"
DefSemiHidden="true" DefQFormat="false" DefPriority="99"
LatentStyleCount="267">
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="0" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Normal"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="9" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="heading 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="9" QFormat="true" Name="heading 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="9" QFormat="true" Name="heading 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="9" QFormat="true" Name="heading 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="9" QFormat="true" Name="heading 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="9" QFormat="true" Name="heading 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="9" QFormat="true" Name="heading 7"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="9" QFormat="true" Name="heading 8"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="9" QFormat="true" Name="heading 9"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="39" Name="toc 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="39" Name="toc 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="39" Name="toc 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="39" Name="toc 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="39" Name="toc 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="39" Name="toc 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="39" Name="toc 7"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="39" Name="toc 8"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="39" Name="toc 9"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="35" QFormat="true" Name="caption"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="10" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Title"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="1" Name="Default Paragraph Font"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="11" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Subtitle"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="22" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Strong"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="20" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Emphasis"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="59" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Table Grid"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Placeholder Text"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="1" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="No Spacing"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="60" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Shading"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="61" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light List"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="62" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Grid"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="63" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="64" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="65" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="66" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="67" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="68" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="69" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="70" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Dark List"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="71" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Shading"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="72" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful List"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="73" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Grid"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="60" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Shading Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="61" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light List Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="62" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Grid Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="63" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="64" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="65" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 1 Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Revision"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="34" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="List Paragraph"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="29" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Quote"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="30" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Intense Quote"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="66" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 2 Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="67" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="68" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="69" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="70" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Dark List Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="71" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Shading Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="72" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful List Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="73" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Grid Accent 1"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="60" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Shading Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="61" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light List Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="62" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Grid Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="63" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="64" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="65" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 1 Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="66" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 2 Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="67" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="68" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="69" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="70" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Dark List Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="71" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Shading Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="72" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful List Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="73" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Grid Accent 2"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="60" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Shading Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="61" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light List Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="62" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Grid Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="63" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="64" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="65" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 1 Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="66" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 2 Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="67" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="68" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="69" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="70" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Dark List Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="71" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Shading Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="72" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful List Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="73" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Grid Accent 3"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="60" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Shading Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="61" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light List Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="62" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Grid Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="63" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="64" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="65" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 1 Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="66" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 2 Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="67" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="68" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="69" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="70" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Dark List Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="71" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Shading Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="72" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful List Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="73" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Grid Accent 4"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="60" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Shading Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="61" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light List Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="62" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Grid Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="63" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="64" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="65" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 1 Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="66" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 2 Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="67" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="68" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="69" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="70" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Dark List Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="71" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Shading Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="72" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful List Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="73" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Grid Accent 5"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="60" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Shading Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="61" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light List Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="62" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Light Grid Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="63" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="64" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="65" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 1 Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="66" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium List 2 Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="67" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="68" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="69" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="70" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Dark List Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="71" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Shading Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="72" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful List Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="73" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" Name="Colorful Grid Accent 6"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="19" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Subtle Emphasis"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="21" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Intense Emphasis"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="31" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Subtle Reference"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="32" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Intense Reference"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="33" SemiHidden="false"
UnhideWhenUsed="false" QFormat="true" Name="Book Title"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="37" Name="Bibliography"/>
<w:LsdException Locked="false" Priority="39" QFormat="true" Name="TOC Heading"/>
</w:LatentStyles>
</xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 10]>
<style>
/* Style Definitions */
table.MsoNormalTable
{mso-style-name:"Table Normal";
mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0;
mso-tstyle-colband-size:0;
mso-style-noshow:yes;
mso-style-priority:99;
mso-style-parent:"";
mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt;
mso-para-margin-top:0in;
mso-para-margin-right:0in;
mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt;
mso-para-margin-left:0in;
line-height:115%;
mso-pagination:widow-orphan;
font-size:11.0pt;
font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";
mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;
mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;
mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;
mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;
mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman";
mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;}
</style>
<![endif]-->
<br />
<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_645955133" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="245" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-0L3SNd6ziTek6R1h4GhzFF1MEywtidrA2Bf976qf44fCh2ouZ5pv3hgXv3n5QThIT1ya0ssnGbWZN2sHO9eom4srnMRAd41Ks9yHdI_40dHpp86PRkd5z7d3so8GKnWCwlpfRgBK_Fs/s400/00610130000.jpg" width="400" /></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/sleep-tight.html" target="_blank">Best Weighted Blanket Ever!</a></td></tr>
</tbody></table>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Restless sleep is a tough one.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For those who know me, you know I’ve
struggled with insomnia for years and I have had to work with my son on many
sleep strategies.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Recently we have been
using the SleepTight weighted blanket and I cannot say enough great things about
it!!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/sleep-tight.html" target="_blank">SleepTight</a> has a rounded out
area at the top of the blanket so that the weight from the blanket can go over
your shoulders.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This is huge because the
weight on the shoulders is very calming, yet the blanket doesn’t bunch up
around the sleeper’s neck.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Just the
thought of that makes me cringe.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Also I hear a lot of talk about weighted blankets should be
10 percent of a person’s body weight.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Who came up with this magic number?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>When you have a teen or adult with autism who needs a weighted blanket
12-15 pounds of weight distributed across their body often isn’t enough.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When you take into account the larger size of
the blanket, the amount of weight distributed across their body is much lower
than a smaller size blanket.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The large
SleepTight has a weight of 16 pounds the XL has a weight of 25 pounds.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For my son who weighs 120 pounds he prefers the
XL.</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
I have been looking for published research on weighted
blankets.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If anyone has read or found
any current research on this topic please let me know!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I don’t doubt how helpful they can be, it’s
just everyone seems to be guessing on what weight to suggest for their weighted
blanket.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It would be nice to have some
academic answers!</div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
Please note: the weighted blanket I refer to was furnished
to us as a gift from National Autism Resources.</div>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-86871528861568592652012-04-20T13:02:00.001-07:002012-04-20T13:03:40.189-07:00Fun Fine Motor Toys - Bed Bugs Game<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;">
<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/bed-bugs-game.html" target="_blank"><img alt="" border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBWEcG0RttFrihsnxKJQm7t6JiIQCmSEu7A5OC1ti5RlopGuVHHe08Wz3pRPEC3FFkLXGl2MIeU2ay4QNDxBnq_w1fqUrJ9pbOV1hmwK9Ai41OWBNcVbJ03OrxmgVP9tzIOCDjf3HgHpM/s200/fs4.jpg" title="Bed Bugs Game" width="200" /></a></div>
<br />
Fine motor skills are so important. We need to develop fine motor skills so we can hold a pencil correctly, use a spoon or fork, get dressed - you name it. To develop fine motor skills you have to exercise the small muscles in the fingers, hands and wrists. For the child with poor fine motor skills this often isn't very fun and can be very frustrating for them and for you.<br />
<br />
As usual, if you can turn therapy into play often its more successful. One way to develop fine motor skills is to play with <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/fun-fine-motor-toys.html" target="_blank">fine motor toys</a> or something like play-doh or <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/theraputty-2-oz.html" target="_blank">Theraputty</a>. But what about the child who is tactile defensive? Play-doh and theraputty isn't fun at all! So finding toys that exercise those fine motor muscles can be really helpful.<br />
<br />
<b>My Favorite Fine Motor Toy: The <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/bed-bugs-game.html" target="_blank">Bed Bugs Game</a></b><br />
One game that has been working well for this is the <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/bed-bugs-game.html" target="_blank">Bed Bugs Game</a>. Here are the reasons why it works so well as a fine motor toy:<br />
<ol><a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/bed-bugs-game.html" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;" target="_blank"><img alt="" border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWLZOYZaXrYzgUZVtRC3BRZHEr3CJtiSJWh5tnS3dvK0eEOONSbNAZRXtSU2t5pdAKXEsk3YoKhyZbHM7lDU1nrhflJ_o_rGAtun6CvXbvy3K2x0uW-Dz6HyH9obUC0UOvqwpcVYm0TuM/s320/bed+bugs+game.png" title="Fine Motor Toy Bed Bugs Game" width="320" /></a>
<li>You have to grab the bugs with tweezers. Tweezers are great because they help develop the muscles necessary for holding a pencil correctly.</li>
<li>You can adapt the game by taking turns. Remember we are talking about working out muscles. Even though fine motor muscles are small remember they get tired. By taking turns with an activity you give muscles a chance for rest.</li>
<li>It's cute and fun. I like that the bedbugs are bright primary colors and don't look ugly. Its also funny to watch them hop on the bed. </li>
<li>You can easily vary the time of the game by the amount of bed bugs you place on the bed. This is helpful in classroom or therapy sessions.</li>
<li>It's a fun game designed for all kids that is not language intensive. This makes it great for inclusive situations. </li>
</ol>
I'm always on the look out for a new, fun fine motor toy or game. Do you have a good one to recommend? If so please share it!Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-2062030710725094742012-04-17T20:46:00.006-07:002012-04-19T17:40:15.703-07:00How to use Picture Communication Cards for Autism<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/food-picture-card-set.html"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiO5LV6C3j7GSxYQKBC_iZc7k5lC-LPzhiGyrZEtDfRJ9rBHQTsv0yDUyuqjHLgLBsjcAEs8UshG34qX1d5-WiCUn-3Qr4bMlA3un62bKGB1Cz6i8qGyL-IarEp93eEDLMi8TMqcIsTfgw/s400/2664_SpaghettiBallBeaded_1B" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5732582495366767666" border="0" /></a><a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/pecs-autism.html">Picture communication cards</a> can help people who can’t communicate with speech. This low tech form of <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/augmentative-communication2.html">augmentative communication</a> is fairly inexpensive and it’s easy to tailor cards to meet the specific needs of a person.<br /><br />If you are beginning to use pictures for augmentative communication, it’s best to start with expressive communication. Begin by identifying common requests the communicator will want or need to use. Next, create a simple picture card to symbolize the request. You can purchase <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/pecs-autism.html">picture cards sets</a> that are already laminated or picture software Boardmaker is the most expensive but <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/pecs-software.html">cheaper software</a> priced well under $100 with thousands of photos is now available too. You can also take photographs of objects yourself or download free pictures off the internet.<br /><br />Some common expressive symbols include:<br /><ul><li>Say hello or good-bye</li><li>Make a request for an object such as a toy, food, or an activity</li><li>Start, continue or stop an activity</li><li>Ask for help</li><li>Express feelings such as happy, sad, sick or tired.</li><li>Indicate a preference or choice</li></ul>Picture communication is easiest to teach if you start with simple requests like yes, no, and I want. The goal is for the communicator to make a simple request by pointing at the communication card. When starting the program make sure the picture cards are easily accessible, immediately acknowledge the request and positively reinforce the new behavior. Also remember to keep in mind the hand preference of the communicator when you offer the picture cards.<br /><br />When teaching someone to use picture cards remember:<br /><ul><li>Start slow.</li><li>Use simple picture cards that depict high use words like drink, food, help or toilet.</li><li>Be consistent.</li><li>Be patient!</li></ul>As a communicator progresses using simple communication cards you should see frustration go down, and independence increase. After learning to make simple requests, greetings, and answering simple questio<a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/a-pictures-worth-pecs-book.html"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 183px; height: 283px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUhTOz0RLt1B8gaI5qQmBCREaRRrdVTijz8R2pmXyBPxVxxJo2WR2-bIhDLlnzUDWfalUDz0vqt40ombY1GVjisOsJBliRVbG4qkfGFr6xmJFUQbfyajM1ppVi-x215sEyrXI3r2YSYL4/s320/2664_SpaghettiBallBeaded_1B" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5732583000380076290" border="0" /></a>ns, its time to move on to sentences. To teach sentences again it’s best to start with simple requests. You can create a word card that says 'I want’ or ‘I need’ and then use it with a picture card of a specific high use item the communicator is requesting.<br /><br />Once you have a set of picture communication cards that it looks like the communicator will use often you may want to laminate them. Often people will laminate their cards and then use velcro coins to attach cards to fabric communication books, choice boards or schedules. For in-depth information on using picture communication a very helpful and easy to follow book is <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/a-pictures-worth-pecs-book.html">A Pictures Worth</a>.Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-21695157816104152892012-04-13T17:59:00.006-07:002012-04-13T21:28:36.150-07:00When God Interrupts Your Schedule<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHbYPDYCnlaGT9Bv10-ML_APCcoL41nnJkKYuSTQDqnelQh2NWlKvR501oNsTdUwGzqH5sFWCL62tn7cF3tfNcJ96EgS-RO8_xNX2DCw2PlRDd5R8juiT5G6yLfmzfrCdLPCkUvTgXeyM/s1600/latches"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 152px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHbYPDYCnlaGT9Bv10-ML_APCcoL41nnJkKYuSTQDqnelQh2NWlKvR501oNsTdUwGzqH5sFWCL62tn7cF3tfNcJ96EgS-RO8_xNX2DCw2PlRDd5R8juiT5G6yLfmzfrCdLPCkUvTgXeyM/s200/latches" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5731107300414047554" border="0" /></a>Recently I was in New York City, trolling a huge toy fair trying to find suitable toys for kids on the spectrum. This is my favorite part of working at <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/">National Autism Resources</a>. I love to find new things, fun things, helpful things, things I wish I would've had. The good news is I found about five new things, which is a lot for me!<br /><br />On the last day of the show I realized I hadn't seen a large part of the show. I woke up early, downed some coffee and headed to the show. I moved quickly from booth to booth and as I made progress I decided to to skip lunch and see if I could finish seeing everything. By two o'clock I was done, I grabbed my coat, and started for the taxi.<br /><br />I decided to go to the airport early and eat at one of the restaurants there. Before I got to the taxi stand I noticed a line for the shuttle, it was due to leave for the airport. So I bought a ticket and waited for the shuttle. The shuttle was fifteen minutes late, then thirty, then forty and soon it was over an hour late. People started getting angry.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMWI-GvkfZD_ZYvy5JemFW-2K9NZHq0nFgCoHRGWMLPl_gdLHbKuo55ItJ0q6_CWOAlWfiHBsRyZ-YRtoatir_BzGL_5GTEI1f26eW17B49RZmkPXvN0AoqmFBbS867aYhOVgDMaWDo8U/s1600/latches"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 225px; height: 225px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMWI-GvkfZD_ZYvy5JemFW-2K9NZHq0nFgCoHRGWMLPl_gdLHbKuo55ItJ0q6_CWOAlWfiHBsRyZ-YRtoatir_BzGL_5GTEI1f26eW17B49RZmkPXvN0AoqmFBbS867aYhOVgDMaWDo8U/s320/latches" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5731106994501063266" border="0" /></a><br />Over an hour later, we find out the shuttle has broken down and another one is on the way. Now I've gone from getting to the airport early, to arriving on time. I took a deep breath and felt peaceful. After all, what's the worse that could happen? I miss my flight, and have to reschedule another one. When the shuttle shows up its ninety minutes late and many in our group are loud and angry. A man standing next to me turned and said, "you don't seem to be too upset."<br /><br />I replied, "I'm not. Getting upset won't get me to the airport earlier, so I'm not worried."<br /><br />He introduced himself and asked for my card. When he saw what I did he became very excited and asked if he could show me his online platform, that he thought autistic kids would love. I said sure and at 4:00pm our shuttle showed up and we moved into NYC rush hour traffic.<br /><br />The man introduced himself as Gaston and proceeded to tell me all about his online platform, how it started, why it started and what made it special. At one point he lamented that he couldn't show me any video, so I took out my I phone and he showed me every video he had. After awhile it became apparent that Gaston had run out of things to say.<br /><br />At 4:30 we started to talk about personal things. I shared with him about my life, my children and the peace I have that comes from God. He shared how he constantly felt angry/guilty/angry with God. How he was going to have a child and decided that she would grow up without knowing God. So for the next half hour I talked to him about God's goodness, kindness, patience and love. By the time we got to the airport, my plane was do to leave in 45 minutes. I quickly grabbed my suitcase, Gaston wished me well as I ran into the terminal.<br /><br />I didn't have my ticket printed and there was a huge line. Fortunately, I pulled up my receipt on my phone and showed it to a JetBlue attendant. He walked over and printed my ticket and walked me over to security. (It pays to travel like crazy!) I thought, my goodness I may make my flight, and then we turned the corner and saw the security line, the attendant said, "I'm sorry but I can't help you with this!"<br /><br />I stood in line and silently thanked God for getting me this far and for the chance to talk to Gaston even if I miss my flight. As soon as I finished the prayer a new section of security opened and my line broke in half! Wow, I thought, "I just might make it" and then the line broke again. I walked straight and turned to a line with only three people in it! I prayed, "thank you Lord, I think I will make it." When it was my turn I was really happy, and then I heard the a man say, "you've been randomly selected for a security check."<br /><br />Oh no, really, I'm this close.. I was bummed as I stepped out of line. An officer walked me to a side machine, wiped my hands with a piece of paper, tested it under a laser and pronounced "You're fine to go."<br /><br />I grabbed my stuff an<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1dso1eO1x0gfq9qomrkckjxkg5-YOIUBQaoYS3_W9zxf4kR7c6j8OqMMAVxr-2ruWlNTEvhwYUJ-zrLR_UD8kwHP_Vpgo_qarXdlMYtB2fDXj4-k59sqklhEWtQ295fSIspxLUbOojtQ/s1600/2664_SpaghettiBallBeaded_1B"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 136px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1dso1eO1x0gfq9qomrkckjxkg5-YOIUBQaoYS3_W9zxf4kR7c6j8OqMMAVxr-2ruWlNTEvhwYUJ-zrLR_UD8kwHP_Vpgo_qarXdlMYtB2fDXj4-k59sqklhEWtQ295fSIspxLUbOojtQ/s200/2664_SpaghettiBallBeaded_1B" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5731108414823952834" border="0" /></a>d started running to my terminal. I heard them starting to board my flight. By this time I was so hungry I quickly prayed, "please help me Lord" and ran through an airport shop grabbed a salad, payed cash and kept running. By the time I got to my terminal I was the last in line to board my section of the flight.<br /><br />I sat down winded, but so thankful. My plan was to leave early and have a nice dinner at the airport, but God wanted me to talk to Gaston. Had the shuttle not been late we never would have met. Had the shuttle not been stuck in rush hour traffic we never would have had the time to talk about spiritual things. God let me spend absolutely as much time as possible talking to Gaston about His goodness.<br /><br />I wish I could say I'm always patient, always peaceful, but my friends that's not the case. Even as I sit here I wonder how many times I've lost out on being used by God because I was unwilling to let my plans be interrupted.<br /><br />Proverbs 16:9 says: In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps.Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-10527238882638554322012-04-11T10:02:00.002-07:002012-04-11T10:11:10.839-07:00Creating a Calm Space for the Child with AutismChildren with autism often find it difficult to cope with common sensory experiences. Their sensory threshold can be lower than the general population and daily experiences can be very tiring for them. When overwhelmed an autistic child may try to counteract over stimulation with self stimulation like rocking, hand flapping or stereotypical behaviors.<br /><br />When an autistic child is overwhelmed its best to give them lots of space and quiet. They may need quiet time several times in one day. This can be a challenge in a small house, or a classroom. To make a calming area you can use:<br /><ul><li>A corner, blocked off with curtains or furniture</li><li>A large cardboard box, like one for large appliances.</li><li>A portable play tent. </li><li>A table covered with a large sheet or blanket. </li></ul>Place some comfortable, <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/calming-products.html">calming items</a> in your quiet area. Some ideas can include soft blankets, pillows, vibrating items, soothing visual items such as <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/liquid-motion-bubbler.html">liquid timers</a>, <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/sand-panel.html">sand panels</a>, or rhythmic moving <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/visual-toys.html">motion lamps</a>.<br /><br />Limit visual stimulation such as bright lights or posters. If possible try to make your calming area darker and quieter than the rest of the room.<br /><br />Allow the child with autism to go into the calming area whenever they are finding it difficult to cope. You could also allow them to do some activities in his quiet space like reading, writing or working in a <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/workbooks.html">workbook</a>. Make sure other children do not disturb the child when he or she is there.<br /><br />Keep in mind that this support may be harder to provide as the child grows older. As the child grows try to replace this space with more socially acceptable accommodations such as a chair in the corner of the room, rocking chair, <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/discount-weighted-vests.html">weighted vest</a> or small, <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/calming-products.html">calming vibrating item</a> or <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/time-timer.html">visual timer</a>.Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-4893148993127358242011-12-03T08:26:00.000-08:002011-12-03T08:58:11.824-08:00Fun Christmas Stocking Ideas<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/hairy-tangle.html"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 172px; height: 164px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjaWnxj5JgVW6IiZUQhFILcU5Qua7x5wAcSyQgKBuZY0G3LR3QQqczAsaLjZpHpdu9wQWuphWAAHCvkQREYPof8ssbGpC5UA-3Ch-Y_C6AdWuBJ4s9WWBWBAZ9Z1q7nZTqLQRappy24wyw/s400/hairy+tangle.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681943977263141234" border="0" /></a>Here are my top five Christmas stocking gifts for this year - woo!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/hairy-tangle.html">Hairy Tangle</a><br />You've heard me rave about the Tangle Relax, we'll this tangle has small hairs that are soft and fantastic to play with. It's been a hit at our house with my teens and all of the kids in the neighborhood thus far. Thank God I get them wholesale or I'd <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/skittles-light-up-rainbow-wand.html"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 135px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcPItSJTlSwQtKifXAMmFL_2-ofnvZM_DjWMLt2WjJxDXwM75Ev_yo8N20doTdQonfOwHnMG4z8GTdvVd8K2bfHWfnV3m3gc3EEv5HBA_qMlT2IPzf8GkmJIYjyjFrcHgu6zxNxF8z700/s320/skittles.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681944582373078514" border="0" /></a>be going broke by this point. So bottom line any kid, unless they are tactile defensive will love this in their stocking and they are only about $6,<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/skittles-light-up-rainbow-wand.html">Skittles Light Up Rainbow Wand</a><br />Candy is a must in our stockings, please people don't judge me, it's just the way it is. Since Skittles are G's favorite candy this was a must have for us. The wand lights up when you press a button and it can be refilled so I'll probably refill it from time to time when I need to help G stay motivated to do something. I try to limit candy in our stockings so this should satisfy with only a little candy because of the wow factor.<br /><br /> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/mini-spectra-globe.html">Mini Spectra G<img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 140px; height: 140px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyrvvWl_wlQYG_eWZRz6ooqIawisKxB25Ju5RVMhOJvdu5yjizY6BQQ9C71pmfK36arrcAfdoJMJ6Q1Pqf4sXM0pI5rQYlPEQy3qmuM_kaAS0gjHcvTsIhnqos7qHw1dbU0jqq9ien6b8/s320/spec.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681944833202097922" border="0" /></a><a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/mini-spectra-globe.html">lobe</a><br />Spinning flashing lights connected to a breakaway necklace - awesome. You can read my feelings about <a href="http://cafebonnie.blogspot.com/2010/11/spinning-toys-and-autism.html">spinning toys and autism</a> here. Hey if you have to travel or have visitors around it's an instant <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/moody-face.html"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 147px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7DaMaIARrwVWQuMgolpHkiT23cy1uMl-7w3uzp0gveG2YSSakhPSvIqjUtwWPFbCm7qFP6D582H6BIAVdjaH83MkEr6ToI-2qKGiA_oSlMnWE3EnlMz4D8KmYr-x6TBD-ELRN7ay3Uk0/s200/moody.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681945084147994930" border="0" /></a>distraction or calmer and is an inexpensive stocking gift.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/moody-face.html">Moody Face</a><br />He's, cute, he's squeezable, he has Koosh type hair and he's cheap. I don't know how long he'll last (I think if they pull too hard his hair will come off) but he's going in the stocking.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/beaded-spaghetti-ball.html">Beaded Sp</a><a><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiS4iPSQ6CUjMWOk9cC3uo_kiVsHRUmOyNPOigqBtYQ27C5tqKcYDcQ2YT83jMfKijmwwb-MSeRGRGqvBr5WI_x9K7RVI_GFvanBsvfXDabx4fnFP62Gbj_8JKgOSmQZMbtA8LN-YoHJcs/s200/bdd.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681945357637827794" border="0" /></a><a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/beaded-spaghetti-ball.html">aghetti Ball</a><br />This thing is awesome think of thin spaghetti noodles that don't break wiggling around in your hands, now add some texture and you've got an idea of what the Beaded Spaghetti Ball feels like. Super squishy, super stretchy and it's super fun.<br /><br />These are my top five stocking gifts for this year. What about you? Do you have a good Christmas stocking idea? If so please share it there's still time to keep filling our stockings!!Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-26170692419269543362011-11-16T10:38:00.000-08:002011-12-03T08:26:15.716-08:00Gift Ideas for Autistic Teenagers<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhl0bbgv3SmPIvjZnQfbJt894fld0oGXffqmZXI6sbG1DNFvO7fT9c-dXWJR6vSR0ZeiZrrg0qTbhzfEnz8_f-GjS-1_IAOIA7nRSZM6ykMX4OcH6GThXg84G0WcfreuEw32PHRpFn96NA/s1600/zsw.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 290px; height: 290px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhl0bbgv3SmPIvjZnQfbJt894fld0oGXffqmZXI6sbG1DNFvO7fT9c-dXWJR6vSR0ZeiZrrg0qTbhzfEnz8_f-GjS-1_IAOIA7nRSZM6ykMX4OcH6GThXg84G0WcfreuEw32PHRpFn96NA/s320/zsw.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5675675362450174866" border="0" /></a>I guess because G is 16 lots of people ask me for gift ideas for autistic teenagers. I do have experience buying gifts for him, but <span class="st"> "<em>If you've met one person with autism</em> <span style="font-style: italic;">– you've met one person with autism</span>" Stephen Shore</span>. All teenagers are different and everyone has their unique special interests. So with that disclaimer I'll give you my gift ideas for autistic teenagers.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Special Interests</span><br />If the autistic teen you are going to buy a present for has a special interest start there. My son loves aviation and Star Wars, every year we buy him a gift related to these two areas. I always buy a Star Wars calendar and I usually buy it in October because I have my choice then. I've also learned that waiting until the last minute can get me in trouble. So if your autistic teen has a favorite subject be on the look out now for a gift in that area.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Calming Items</span><br />Life can be stressful for any teen. There are lots of transitions, complex social interactions and confusing situations teens on the autism spectrum face daily. A wonderful gift for an autistic teen is something that's calming.<br /><ul><li><a href="http://www.nationalautismresourcesblog.com/2011/11/14/calming-vibrating-toys-gifts-for-autism-aspergers/">Vibration</a> toys, <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/sirius-vibrating-massage-pillow-.html">pillows</a> or tubes are all very calming. This year I plan to give my son a <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/vibramat.html">Vibramat</a>. We can put his bean bag on top of the vibrating mat for a vibrating chair or under his mattress to make it vibrate. </li><li>Weighted items - <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/discount-weighted-vests.html">weighted vests</a>, <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/glitter-gel-lap-pad-5-pounds.html">lap pads</a> or <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/sleep-tight.html">blankets</a> are more expensive, but can be very soothing. It's always great when a grandparent or family member will give this kind of gift.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/ooze-tube.html"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 126px; height: 223px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2kpMx0yofYCCZ8Dh32izMiqKd8lcZdNnzE_udjbChUHz9UlBoKnxnz9RUkhGUSHB_0BxsA0TzckOLdbGw1sQrkJN6N3LIL6YjQJguvbbj8Eca2SS_m4h7KJbHr0t4wmb2m5Cg4Gw5qoI/s320/zot.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5675675918898290162" border="0" /></a></li></ul><a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/visual-toys.html"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Visual Items</span></a><br />Many autistic teenagers are highly visual. Visually interesting items make great gifts. One of my son's favorite items is an <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/ooze-tube.html">Ooze tube</a>. Some more highly visual items that make great gifts include <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/time-timer.html">liquid timers</a>, <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/sand-panel.html">sand panels</a>, <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/disco-ball.html">disco balls</a>, light up or <a href="http://cafebonnie.blogspot.com/2010/11/spinning-toys-and-autism.html">spinning items</a>.<br /><br />These are just a few gift suggestions. Do you have a good gift idea for an autistic teen? If so please share it, I'm in the same boat as everyone else and I always appreciate good ideas!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Update </span>National Autism Resources has put together a <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/tweens-and-teens.html">gift page for autistic teens</a>.Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-73893206255687083812011-10-15T09:34:00.000-07:002011-10-15T10:42:50.707-07:00When Rumors Become Truths<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9vApYgRdOLcvdDwKe9JXay3PL1aPJv0JbNOMWiil3fJ8xv1P0Ai70DSzG1WRW6xEKVTtdqyRdEIP4A_L6O0GXlyg4Fj4el_1pIvPEIkyfYqXsX_dcQjFkTuk3SFs2gWdc9rSt3bN6Dh8/s1600/rumors.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 123px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9vApYgRdOLcvdDwKe9JXay3PL1aPJv0JbNOMWiil3fJ8xv1P0Ai70DSzG1WRW6xEKVTtdqyRdEIP4A_L6O0GXlyg4Fj4el_1pIvPEIkyfYqXsX_dcQjFkTuk3SFs2gWdc9rSt3bN6Dh8/s200/rumors.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5663774877629945986" border="0" /></a>The Internet is amazing to me because the amount of information we can get is incredibly vast. We can read the news, watch video interviews by experts, search professional databases all from the comfort of our home. There is lots, and lots, and lots of information out there. But is it true?<br /><br />I have watched assumptions and rumors become truths. One glaring assumption that has become a "truth" - families of a child with autism are much more likely to divorce. I've heard this "truth" touted on TV shows, quoted in newspapers, blogs, you name it. However, the truth is - this is NOT true! As a matter of fact, parents of kids with autism are NOT more likely to divorce. You can read the research <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/05/19/autism.divorce.rates/index.html">here</a>.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggvQRyTtJrxrc1pTluMXjmf7DMVjoq0WEdcM8_1Sz6K3Ni4oU0sxp_oFxO6vQH-RUISkd9ikmCZL2pIzGU83mDn0dkGx0cfhdRWCEsRRA4gHjD_NSB4hpw-hOfK2M7bGkHHL_yXIMY-V8/s1600/Anthony_Frederick_Augustus_Sandys-Mariya_Magdalena_sm.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 162px; height: 195px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggvQRyTtJrxrc1pTluMXjmf7DMVjoq0WEdcM8_1Sz6K3Ni4oU0sxp_oFxO6vQH-RUISkd9ikmCZL2pIzGU83mDn0dkGx0cfhdRWCEsRRA4gHjD_NSB4hpw-hOfK2M7bGkHHL_yXIMY-V8/s200/Anthony_Frederick_Augustus_Sandys-Mariya_Magdalena_sm.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5663773725180223874" border="0" /></a>But rumors are nothing new. I was reading today about Mary Magdalene, the former prostitute, or so I thought. After all there are Magdalene houses all over the world that minister to women of the night. Well in my study I was surprised to learn no where in the Bible is she referred to as a prostitute. It turns out that rumors have turned into truths for this woman. You can read all about her in <span style="font-size:100%;">Matthew 27:56; Mat</span><span style="font-size:100%;">thew 27:61; Matthew 28:1; Mark 15:40; Mark 15:47; Mark 16:1-19; Luke 8:2; Luke 24:10; John 19:25; John 20:1-18. If you take the time to read i</span><span style="font-size:100%;">t you'll find no reference to prostitution.<br /><br />So once again I'm reminded there is nothing new "under the sun" and just because the majority of people believe something is true, does not mean it is.<br /><br />This reminds me of a therapy, the gluten- and casein-free diet. Some claim it "cures" autism and others claim it's all just "wishful thinking" on the part of the parents. At this point the research says we need more research. Nothing is definitive, the GFCF diet may significantly help a subset of the autistic population. It didn't help my son, but I've heard many first hand reports from very logical parents that it did work for their children. At this point I'm going to assume these parents aren't morons.</span><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><br />I think part of the reason we don't hear "the GFCF diet might work" in the media is because it's not exciting. It's not like saying she's a prostitute, or here's the cure, or those parents are just delusional.<br /><br />Everyone is clamoring</span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4r7fS_HFNrVuWFOGv7rmzATw7bOuYqiRi5yehGLv7JoyRB3gKcz72yfjsE_BhsB0cmvaFahuu1hHdyKy-ejNwwzE7yStwPRqaSe1XCiBKS7PJYVwy2vOBA4QjIEcu2YPgbuUJGEhPOjo/s1600/true-false-300x199.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 346px; height: 228px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4r7fS_HFNrVuWFOGv7rmzATw7bOuYqiRi5yehGLv7JoyRB3gKcz72yfjsE_BhsB0cmvaFahuu1hHdyKy-ejNwwzE7yStwPRqaSe1XCiBKS7PJYVwy2vOBA4QjIEcu2YPgbuUJGEhPOjo/s320/true-false-300x199.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5663774076235537058" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:100%;"> to be heard on the Internet, so where does that leave us, the common person. It leav</span><span style="font-size:100%;">es us with the responsibility of digging a little </span><span style="font-size:100%;">deeper. Thankfully, with the Internet you can e-mail a newspaper, professional expert or blogger and ask where they found their information. Can you send me the links? By the way, for the most part I've included my references, but if you want more information on anything I've referred to feel free to ask me.<br /></span>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-11367021450839684412011-09-24T08:44:00.000-07:002011-09-24T08:55:54.945-07:00Autistic Teen's Photograph Seen Across the Country<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGud1_V_D9guEmjX7c77FM0xvj4d-6MMC-VzITVpzLN2pkoj-gD0iU5TN_yPQEeZlzQ1S4IJHapltJ51P6etwV_rMOGAH1XJMEUQtbCybbIwNXgNZFSx7jB1-E0BhoDPG0LKrrJFebRgc/s1600/planewing.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 225px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGud1_V_D9guEmjX7c77FM0xvj4d-6MMC-VzITVpzLN2pkoj-gD0iU5TN_yPQEeZlzQ1S4IJHapltJ51P6etwV_rMOGAH1XJMEUQtbCybbIwNXgNZFSx7jB1-E0BhoDPG0LKrrJFebRgc/s400/planewing.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5655955119645975890" border="0" /></a>Geoffrey and his Dad were at the Reno Air Races. This is the picture G took of the plane before it crashed, it's been on CNN, NBC, ABC, MSNBC and CBS. The night of the crash they gave it to the NTSB and it has really helped to focus their investigation.<br /><br />At first G was devastated, but now he is feeling much better and is glad his photo is helping the investigation. He's been drawing some amazing pictures, I'll post some more soon.Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-5874852968655002292011-06-25T16:07:00.000-07:002011-06-25T16:28:59.680-07:00G's Latest Paintings<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIAUTKBgrUOvKT4DkSt8cH65fQZaxsk7uImZTntb2ZiY66rFQup2Hhh3UvXApcRI70BdGq-1dMQpCjYYgAPs1ay6OTH-9Dkqy-Oxrr6k3QEG228Vggzas7C21cDl69ATr4b4rpXDQsEBU/s1600/photo%25288%2529.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIAUTKBgrUOvKT4DkSt8cH65fQZaxsk7uImZTntb2ZiY66rFQup2Hhh3UvXApcRI70BdGq-1dMQpCjYYgAPs1ay6OTH-9Dkqy-Oxrr6k3QEG228Vggzas7C21cDl69ATr4b4rpXDQsEBU/s400/photo%25288%2529.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5622301863537865570" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnETZ3ycZdz6907IXS05v55R0Se_BnfSP3xaQdNhGnADoxSmiR4OxizwlIL4RI3t_yd4tHwq7jYQdypESi2g32Lf36sM_WrBL7-KZ9OhiGKhUfspumr5HT81JgWeZlYVZnCd2N1vWLCYM/s1600/photo%25289%2529.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnETZ3ycZdz6907IXS05v55R0Se_BnfSP3xaQdNhGnADoxSmiR4OxizwlIL4RI3t_yd4tHwq7jYQdypESi2g32Lf36sM_WrBL7-KZ9OhiGKhUfspumr5HT81JgWeZlYVZnCd2N1vWLCYM/s400/photo%25289%2529.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5622301756196937346" border="0" /></a><br />G continues to paint! Of course his favorite subject continues to be jets! I have found a frame for the top picture, I'll be trolling the thrift shops for the Thunderbird painting.Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-70035466553504662412011-06-21T07:21:00.000-07:002011-06-21T07:57:53.344-07:00Some Things Can't Be Fixed<span style="font-family:arial;">On Father's day I was reading the Bible. I came across Genesis 29:32-35. It's a passage from the story of </span><a style="font-family: arial;" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/devotionals/all-women-bible/2011/06/20">Leah</a><span style="font-family:arial;"> a woman who's husband didn't love her. Her husband really loved her sister Rachel, but he was tricked into marrying her and after one week of marriage her husband married her sister too.<br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family:arial;" >Genesis 29:32-35:</span> <span style="font-style: italic; font-family: times new roman;"><br />Leah became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She named him Reuben, for she said, “It is because the LORD has seen my misery. Surely my husband will love me no</span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3aOaWkzKUeXznxm8u2NdEYJCN_Icq19fKn4HrGDeOFj-K1JjWMOb9euZBW0JiC8AsEHjF1_tjIqv9zPj-9KrHSeoL8H7usZbNApUiw33YA9O9fl9M7PE9-RooVQj0SzenJrhO2hvbKIM/s1600/Man++With+Two+Wives.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 146px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3aOaWkzKUeXznxm8u2NdEYJCN_Icq19fKn4HrGDeOFj-K1JjWMOb9euZBW0JiC8AsEHjF1_tjIqv9zPj-9KrHSeoL8H7usZbNApUiw33YA9O9fl9M7PE9-RooVQj0SzenJrhO2hvbKIM/s200/Man++With+Two+Wives.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620686844912743730" border="0" /></a><span style="font-style: italic; font-family: times new roman;">w.” </span><p style="font-style: italic; font-family: times new roman;"> She conceived again, and when she gave birth to a son she said, “Because the LORD heard that I am not loved, he gave me this one too.” So she named him Simeon. </p><p style="font-style: italic; font-family: times new roman;"> Again she conceived, and when she gave birth to a son she said, “Now at last my husband will become attached to me, because I have borne him three sons.” So he was named Levi. </p><span style="font-style: italic; font-family: times new roman;">She conceived again, and when she gave birth to a son she said, “This time I will praise the LORD.” So she named him Judah.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">I was struck by this passage for a couple of reasons, first of all thank God I'm not Leah! I can't imagine the heart ache of sharing a husband AND not being the favorite. Had I been in her situation I would have begged for change too. I would have looked at every wonderful thing happening and been sure that God was fixing my situation and making it better...</span> <br /><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">but some t</span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" style="font-family: arial;" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfgFGeJrCEYuZPuPV4VD8mzoKMGL08Z3ucn7G5KKhZ5PiDfKmcfCzyzMgagsS7Xc71Igym_5dNSCDbqprGKqyAWSjtypP6Qr_YBUiMbrguwgDkBkhnfjkXJ5e8gtAAgcJXO6VK5c3xfTk/s1600/Broken+Egg+III.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 255px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfgFGeJrCEYuZPuPV4VD8mzoKMGL08Z3ucn7G5KKhZ5PiDfKmcfCzyzMgagsS7Xc71Igym_5dNSCDbqprGKqyAWSjtypP6Qr_YBUiMbrguwgDkBkhnfjkXJ5e8gtAAgcJXO6VK5c3xfTk/s320/Broken+Egg+III.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620686053090462498" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:arial;">hings can't be fixed.</span> <span style="font-family:arial;"><br /><br />Some things can't be fixed. Does that statement bother you the way it bothers me? I know God is all powerful, I know He can do anything, I know with determination and God's help I can accomplish great things. But I have found that no matter how many band-aids, prayers or hours I put into some things - they just can't be fixed because we live in a broken world.</span> <span style="font-family:arial;"><br /><br />However, some things can change and what I noticed in this passage was that Leah's perspective changed. She moved from "now my husband will love me" to "I will praise the God who loves me." Subtle but huge. Did she still wish her husband loved her? I'm gonna take a guess and say yes. Was this wish her central focus? After the fourth son, no. </span> <span style="font-family:arial;"><br /><br />When we're caught up in what we want fixed we miss out on what we could already have. I can think of nothing better than enjoying a loving God who is close to us, interested in the daily stuff of our lives, who works things out for our good in the end, who gives us peace, guidance and the unconditional love all of us crave (including Leah)!</span> <span style="font-family:arial;"><br /><br />Some things can't be fixed, but God is waiting to walk with us if we'll change our perspective.</span>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-45699409370157094392011-06-12T19:33:00.000-07:002011-06-12T19:49:17.617-07:00The Language Builder ABA Cards<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/language-builder-picture-cards-nouns.html"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 250px; height: 232px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_geFiAa8dpJTbNTBwtzMU0Lsfem9RLezJEH5fxnTfpQB1HaydyDADx4x7L6OLxAH-VgTKeQr6CuY-hXIepqrPi4fvEPtUxNGiwL3EB-GPDpuCR_QzJiC42N_-e9ijp0wkYD-C4095FzI/s400/yhst-13171632195427_2159_729252.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5617529527575051842" border="0" /></a><br />While I was at the <a href="http://www.toyassociation.org/AM/Template.cfm?Section=toy_Fair">New York Toy Fair</a> I had a chance to meet Angela from Stages Learning. She is a mom of an autistic child who started making <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/aba-tools.html">ABA materials</a>. She teamed up with an ABA therapist to make a variety of products including <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/language-builder-picture-cards-nouns.html">the Language Builder</a> Noun cards. Right away I was impressed with Angela and knew her product had a good reputation so we started selling them at NAR.<br /><br />Wow I was totally not prepared for the awesome feedback we've gotten from them so far! Yay! They work great in ABA programs and are very helpful with generalization. My only regret is that they are so expensive. The suggested retail price is $150! However, especially for therapists who work with several children the feedback thus far is that they are worth it. They are on sale now at National Autism Resources and I hope to keep them on sale until the wholesale price goes up, which I hope it doesn't.<br /><br />The coolest thing is that this is another great example of a Mom creating an awesome product. Some the most helpful products I've seen have been created by Moms & therapists just trying to make the world easier. It sort of reminds me of the <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/handi-writer1.html">Handiwriter</a> and <a href="http://www.nationalautismresources.com/chew-tubes.html">Chewy Tubes</a>. So yay for Angela!Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-52571113259553316432011-05-13T12:32:00.000-07:002011-05-13T14:53:59.665-07:00Overwhelmed with Gratefulness<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <o:officedocumentsettings> <o:allowpng/> </o:OfficeDocumentSettings> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:trackmoves/> <w:trackformatting/> <w:punctuationkerning/> <w:validateagainstschemas/> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:SaveIfXMLInvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:IgnoreMixedContent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText> <w:donotpromoteqf/> <w:lidthemeother>EN-US</w:LidThemeOther> <w:lidthemeasian>X-NONE</w:LidThemeAsian> <w:lidthemecomplexscript>X-NONE</w:LidThemeComplexScript> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> <w:dontgrowautofit/> <w:splitpgbreakandparamark/> <w:enableopentypekerning/> <w:dontflipmirrorindents/> <w:overridetablestylehps/> </w:Compatibility> <m:mathpr> <m:mathfont val="Cambria Math"> <m:brkbin val="before"> <m:brkbinsub val="--"> <m:smallfrac val="off"> <m:dispdef/> <m:lmargin val="0"> <m:rmargin val="0"> <m:defjc val="centerGroup"> <m:wrapindent val="1440"> <m:intlim val="subSup"> <m:narylim val="undOvr"> </m:mathPr></w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:latentstyles deflockedstate="false" defunhidewhenused="true" defsemihidden="true" defqformat="false" defpriority="99" latentstylecount="267"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="0" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Normal"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="9" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="heading 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="9" qformat="true" name="heading 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="9" qformat="true" name="heading 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="9" qformat="true" name="heading 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="9" qformat="true" name="heading 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="9" qformat="true" name="heading 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="9" qformat="true" name="heading 7"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="9" qformat="true" name="heading 8"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="9" qformat="true" name="heading 9"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="39" name="toc 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="39" name="toc 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="39" name="toc 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="39" name="toc 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="39" name="toc 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="39" name="toc 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="39" name="toc 7"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="39" name="toc 8"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="39" name="toc 9"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="35" qformat="true" name="caption"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="10" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Title"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="1" name="Default Paragraph Font"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="11" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Subtitle"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="22" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Strong"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="20" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Emphasis"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="59" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Table Grid"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Placeholder Text"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="1" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="No Spacing"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="60" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Shading"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="61" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light List"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="62" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Grid"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="63" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="64" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="65" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="66" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="67" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="68" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="69" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="70" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Dark List"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="71" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Shading"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="72" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful List"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="73" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Grid"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="60" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Shading Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="61" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light List Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="62" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Grid Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="63" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="64" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="65" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 1 Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Revision"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="34" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="List Paragraph"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="29" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Quote"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="30" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Intense Quote"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="66" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 2 Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="67" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="68" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="69" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="70" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Dark List Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="71" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Shading Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="72" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful List Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="73" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Grid Accent 1"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="60" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Shading Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="61" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light List Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="62" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Grid Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="63" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="64" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="65" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 1 Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="66" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 2 Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="67" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="68" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="69" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="70" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Dark List Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="71" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Shading Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="72" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful List Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="73" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Grid Accent 2"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="60" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Shading Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="61" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light List Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="62" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Grid Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="63" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="64" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="65" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 1 Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="66" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 2 Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="67" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="68" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="69" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="70" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Dark List Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="71" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Shading Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="72" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful List Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="73" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Grid Accent 3"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="60" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Shading Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="61" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light List Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="62" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Grid Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="63" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="64" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="65" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 1 Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="66" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 2 Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="67" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="68" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="69" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="70" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Dark List Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="71" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Shading Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="72" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful List Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="73" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Grid Accent 4"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="60" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Shading Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="61" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light List Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="62" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Grid Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="63" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="64" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="65" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 1 Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="66" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 2 Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="67" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="68" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="69" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="70" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Dark List Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="71" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Shading Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="72" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful List Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="73" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Grid Accent 5"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="60" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Shading Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="61" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light List Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="62" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Light Grid Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="63" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 1 Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="64" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Shading 2 Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="65" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 1 Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="66" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium List 2 Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="67" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 1 Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="68" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 2 Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="69" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Medium Grid 3 Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="70" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Dark List Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="71" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Shading Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="72" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful List Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="73" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" name="Colorful Grid Accent 6"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="19" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Subtle Emphasis"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="21" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Intense Emphasis"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="31" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Subtle Reference"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="32" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Intense Reference"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="33" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Book Title"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="37" name="Bibliography"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="39" qformat="true" name="TOC Heading"> </w:LatentStyles> </xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-priority:99; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0in; mso-para-margin-right:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0in; line-height:115%; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal">This morning I woke up and felt overwhelmed with gratefulness. I have so much to be thankful for – I’m one of the richest women in the world. As a matter fact, if you’re reading this you’re one of the richest people in the world too. If you have a computer, plenty of food to eat, a roof over your head and live in relative safety, compared to the rest of the world you are rich.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Anyhow, that’s a subject for another post.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Today I just want to list a few of the things I’m grateful for in no particular order:</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-weight: bold;">My family:</span> They love me, they drive me crazy, and they bring me more joy than I could have ever imagined.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-weight: bold;">My friends:</span> Those who know me well know I have entrenched hermit tendencies. I love nothing better than to sit in the corner and read a book or write a paper or research something. Yet these friends of mine keep calling, keep e-mailing, and keep visiting me even though at times I’m prone to depression.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-weight: bold;">My health:</span> I have access to healthcare, a cabinet full of drugs and first aid supplies, and I’m a 10 min. drive from the hospital.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>Just for clarification those drugs I mentioned are all legal.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-weight: bold;">My mind:</span> What more can I say about this?<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>If you’re reading this and have clarity of thought you have a tremendous gift. I’ve met many people through age or injury that have lost this.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-weight: bold;">God loves me.</span> I don’t believe God is far away he is up close and real. He helps me when I’m weak, shows me the way when I’m lost, comforts me when I’m sad and is my constant companion.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Today don’t get caught up in all those things you don’t have.<span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span>I’ve met so many people who always seem to be looking ahead and never stop to just look around. The world is a beautiful place and life is a wonderful gift so enjoy it my friends.</p> <p style="font-style: italic;" class="MsoNormal">“For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that.” 2 Timothy 6:7-8</p>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6755054570298422933.post-75423379124363853092011-04-30T07:20:00.000-07:002011-04-30T07:45:28.082-07:00Everyone Wants Loving Relationships<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFJcBkw_yl78lQmvY52NiBlf_Dp-LsAH9QOEONDXczO6cSBtHAROj3L3dLu015dCSYt_q5Sr8qIaCsucvipjZJf8dERqmrAfmdmPYkx35ZU2ynK1ugoapK4GyEP4VKiXq8qSvjCYEE3YM/s1600/photo%25282%2529.JPG"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFJcBkw_yl78lQmvY52NiBlf_Dp-LsAH9QOEONDXczO6cSBtHAROj3L3dLu015dCSYt_q5Sr8qIaCsucvipjZJf8dERqmrAfmdmPYkx35ZU2ynK1ugoapK4GyEP4VKiXq8qSvjCYEE3YM/s200/photo%25282%2529.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5601384775766716050" border="0" /></a>This year I stepped out of my comfort zone and started working with Junior Highers at my church. I did this because Grace is in the 8th grade and I wanted to do something with her together. The truth is I was scared!<br /><br />I've heard lots about how hard it is to work with teens and tweens. How they can be disrespectful, run you over... What I've found is that the teens and tweens I've been working with just want a relationship. They want to know someone is interested in them, praying for them, and enjoys their company. Even if that someone is a middle aged Mom or Dad who is cluless on the latest fashion, movies and music.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyNpMhAGLFqzASbcmbzWvrblq-_iHtahtt-3uewp7yWlhVBxl-j86n3pIYsagycNKghDGL2FTCUXHdZ0VvO2dwMm-cpOO0JLNYv8SDENN6_5a9I4QQiTkRijpVb2M_LVCPsVLRRgSKa3E/s1600/photo.JPG"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyNpMhAGLFqzASbcmbzWvrblq-_iHtahtt-3uewp7yWlhVBxl-j86n3pIYsagycNKghDGL2FTCUXHdZ0VvO2dwMm-cpOO0JLNYv8SDENN6_5a9I4QQiTkRijpVb2M_LVCPsVLRRgSKa3E/s200/photo.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5601382971195362786" border="0" /></a><br />Last night the group came over to my house with their Wii remotes and a snack to share. I was a little nervouse about how the night would go but it ended up being so fun. They didn't mind us trying to dance or sing with them. They loved that we jumped right in. (Here is Gary the co-leader dad doing the Monster Mash w/ the kids. They picked something "old school" that he recognized.)<br /><br />Back to relationships, isn't that what all of us want? We want loving relationships where we feel accepted, encouraged and a part of a community. Sometimes we try to complicate things, make big programs, read books, go to leader training to become the best spiritual leader we can. Don't get me wrong, these things can be good. But maybe, just maybe, we lose something getting wrapped up in all of that. Maybe we need to stick to the basics of loving God and loving people.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Jesus replied: </span><span class="woj" style="font-style: italic;">“‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ </span><span class="woj" style="font-style: italic;">This is the first and greatest commandment.</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><span class="woj" style="font-style: italic;"> And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ </span><span class="woj" style="font-style: italic;">All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”</span><br /><div style="text-align: right; font-style: italic;">Matthew 22:37-40<br /></div>Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06460284744916937923noreply@blogger.com0